Custom Work: Engagement Rings for Matthew and Orlando

Custom work is a big part of what I do here at Talisman Fine Jewelry. And there are few things that are quite so special as making commitment rings for a couple… something they’ll wear for a lifetime, day in and day out. It’s always an honor when someone asks me to create such a piece. So suffice it to say, when my friend Matthew asked if I would help make dual engagement rings for he and his partner, I was over the moon. I also personally love the idea that both partners should get to wear an engagement ring… why not?? It’s 2023, and we can make our own rules!

On a personal note - Matthew and I have a long history of friendship, stemming from when we were backstage together at many a fashion show, where I would be doing wardrobe styling, while Matthew and his team did hair and makeup. Such fun memories. I’ve had the pleasure of getting to know Matthew’s partner Orlando a bit more since they became a couple, and couldn’t have been more overjoyed to hear that Matthew wanted to take it to the next level. What a wonderful duo they are!

So after much deliberating with Matthew on just what these important rings would look like, funny enough, when Matthew slyly got Orlando’s thoughts on ring designs, we came full circle to the wabi sabi, organic look and feel that is really my specialty. Perfect.

I then got started creating the two rings in wax, which is indeed how much of my work begins. Each ring was one-of-a-kind, distinctly for its wearer, and yet definitely a pair. Then from there the rings went into casting - sterling silver, in this case.

After casting comes the intensive process of hand-sawing and grinding off any nubs and “sprues,” and my (definitely neurotic) 10-step sanding and polishing process. Voila!

Honestly, one of the hardest parts of this whole project was sitting on this major secret, waiting for Matthew to propose! It was such a treat to finally see the proposal online, while the couple was down in Santa Fe. Pure magic. I wish them all the love and blessings on their union <3